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I have been a longtime fan of Pat Conroy's work and have read many of his books. Recently, while visiting in New England, I purchased a copy of "The Death of Santini" in a quaint little bookstore in Portsmouth, New Hampshire. I was delighted to find it, as I hadnโt known about this one. Upon my return to Georgia, I couldnโt wait to dive into it.
Twenty-odd years ago, when we were living on the coast of Maine, I recall being so moved by "The Prince of Tides" that I wrote my first and only other letter to an author, sending it to the publisher with no real hope that it would ever find its way to Pat A couple of months later, to my great surprise, Pat called me at our home in Kennebunk, Maine, an act of kindness that I shall always remember.
Having also been raised as a "military brat" with an abusive father. in his remarkable way, Pat pulled the scabs off these old wounds, but in doing so was also able to apply a salve to help heal them.
I shall always be grateful for Pat's incredible insights, amazing storytelling, and his amazing ability to capture the essence of who we are, in beautiful and unvarnished ways.
Twenty-odd years ago, when we were living on the coast of Maine, I recall being so moved by "The Prince of Tides" that I wrote my first and only other letter to an author, sending it to the publisher with no real hope that it would ever find its way to Pat A couple of months later, to my great surprise, Pat called me at our home in Kennebunk, Maine, an act of kindness that I shall always remember.
Having also been raised as a "military brat" with an abusive father. in his remarkable way, Pat pulled the scabs off these old wounds, but in doing so was also able to apply a salve to help heal them.
I shall always be grateful for Pat's incredible insights, amazing storytelling, and his amazing ability to capture the essence of who we are, in beautiful and unvarnished ways.
How did I miss this book, My Reading Life? Just finished the audio version and, oh my, I think I will buy the book as well..... but in this case, hearing it come from his voice was so powerful for me. Like a great book of fiction, I am mourning that it is over. That surprises me. When Pat Conroy was truly passionate about something, he certainly could make you passionate about it as well. Such an amazing gift!
As I listened to this, so much of it resonated with me. When he talked about James Dickey and how he promised himself that if he met him he would not become a blubbering idiot (not his words, mine), I thought, I felt that way about you Pat! And I did. The difference between those 2 situations I think is that he said once he met James Dickey he thought Mr. Dickey would have thought it an appropriate reaction. Lol. I don't think Mr. Conroy would have felt that way.
So much I could say! So much! But I think a big part of what I admire is that he took his pain and turned it into a thing of beauty. Without covering it up. As he said at the end of this book when he described the Japanese art of repairing pottery without covering up the crack. His skill with words made him a master at metaphor.
I will always miss his potent voice. So thankful I found it long ago.
As I listened to this, so much of it resonated with me. When he talked about James Dickey and how he promised himself that if he met him he would not become a blubbering idiot (not his words, mine), I thought, I felt that way about you Pat! And I did. The difference between those 2 situations I think is that he said once he met James Dickey he thought Mr. Dickey would have thought it an appropriate reaction. Lol. I don't think Mr. Conroy would have felt that way.
So much I could say! So much! But I think a big part of what I admire is that he took his pain and turned it into a thing of beauty. Without covering it up. As he said at the end of this book when he described the Japanese art of repairing pottery without covering up the crack. His skill with words made him a master at metaphor.
I will always miss his potent voice. So thankful I found it long ago.
Pat entered The Citadel in the Fall of 1963 after I had graduated in June. My wife and I now live in a 119 year old house in Pisgah Forest, NC. The house was once owned by Hamilton Basso who wrote The View From Pompey;s Head. I met Pat for the first time after I was inducted into The Citadel athletic Hall of Fame in 2007. I attended his induction into the same Hall of Fame. When he found out that we owned the house that Basso lived in he said he would send us a few 1st edition Basso books and he did. Those books have a special place on our bookshelf. Pat said Basso (a good friend of Thomas Wolfe) was one of his favorite authors.
Pat and his books will never be forgotten.
Pat and his books will never be forgotten.
My husband & I are leaving HHI and the lowlands today after yet another amazing week. We celebrated 52 years of marriage on 8/19/19 and we both have enjoyed all of Pat Conroyโs books! He touched so many lives and through his works he will continue to live in the hearts of many.
My wife, Julie, and I are celebrating 50 years of marriage by vacationing in Pat Conroy country. Just today (8/17/19) we visited Patโs gravesite in St Helena Memorial Garden. Julie placed a pen on his grave. We felt the loss of a friend as well as a gifted American author. โThank you, Pat, writing the hard truth in great love.โ
When I was a kid I caught glimpses of the movie, The Prince of Tides. I was mesmerized. Later in high school I discovered it was a novel and read it shortly after. That book, as a writer and Southerner myself, inspired me greatly. Pat Conroy's words melted in my mouth like butter. Such an amazing writer and I am definitely going to read all his works. I just now found out that he died, so upsetting, he was so young. But he left such a legacy behind and I am very grateful for that. Pat, you will be greatly missed. Rest in Peace dear one.
Iโm so inspired by his work. He made me fall in love with South Carolina.
It's funny one of my favorite movies growing up was "Conrack" years later I found this great author I loved and started collecting his books but couldn't find a copy of " The Water is Wide" finally after a local bookstore kept the title on a list of requests I got one imagine my suprise and delight when I realized that Pat Conroy was Conrack, later when The Prince of Tides came out it became one of my top 2 or 3 favorites then he wrote Beach Music in my opinion an even better book. By now I've read each of those at least 4-5 times each.
Thank you Mr Conroy for some of my favorite moments in reading.
So sad to hear of his death.
Thank you Mr Conroy for some of my favorite moments in reading.
So sad to hear of his death.
I am headed down to Charleston for the first time this coming week with my son, and happened upon Pat Controy's website. He was one of the most influential authors in my life. I had the chance to meet him when he visited his Citadel classmate John Warley; I lived across the street from the Warley's in Newport News VA, and they knew how much I loved Pat Conroy. I was 13, and I will never forget that moment.
The Prince of Tides
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On July 2, 2019, I found a big, fat paperback book on the beach of Doran Regional Park in Sonoma County (California pacific coast) while traveling with my family. ...
Today is July 13, 2019 and Iโve finished the novel. Wowza! What a read.
Iโm sorry to learn of Mr Conroyโs passing (via Wikipedia), but am grateful for his publications.
Thank you, Team Conroy
Sincerely,
Jennifer J. Petrick
From The San Francisco Bay Area, By way of Southern California Beach Cities, and the northeastern Mesabi Iron range of Minnesota
Today is July 13, 2019 and Iโve finished the novel. Wowza! What a read.
Iโm sorry to learn of Mr Conroyโs passing (via Wikipedia), but am grateful for his publications.
Thank you, Team Conroy
Sincerely,
Jennifer J. Petrick
From The San Francisco Bay Area, By way of Southern California Beach Cities, and the northeastern Mesabi Iron range of Minnesota
I am about half way through "The Great Santini" and I believe this is going to be a very long journey. Is there any order in which I should read your books. I intend to read them all... I am from US Naval Aviation stock and these writings fit right in with me. I'm glad your books have found their way into my home. Thank you.
I am in the middle of his book Beach music and decided I wanted to do some research on Conroy. What I came up with appeared to be shockingly close to the life that my grandfather has led. His books make more sense to me now because I can see where he was coming from and I have an image when I read his words that makes me enticed and fascinated. Thank you, Pat.
"Pat. I'm sorry to have never known you. I feel as if I did."
I was born the same year as Pat and knew of him at the beginning of his career, reading "The Water is Wide" upon publication and then reading "The Boo". I knew a Citadel classmate of his in Pensacola in 1968 when he and my husband were training to fly helicopters in Viet Nam.
As time passed, I systematically waited for each new book with baited breath as I shared the Marine Corps, teaching, and writing with Pat. It took me a lot longer to become an author and I shall never possess the gift of painting lovely visuals with my words as did he, the master of the art.
I had the pleasure of meeting Cassandra and sharing a luncheon table with her at a writers' conference about a year before Pat's death. Hope was still alive that I would one day meet the great man, too.
Alas, I did not, but I did travel to the low-country cemetery along dirt roads to view his simple grave within a rusted wire fence enclosure. His SC soil-covered grave was covered with seashells from the waters he so loved. A loving touch -- perhaps from the children whose lives meant so much to him.
Lord, Pat. I miss you.
I was born the same year as Pat and knew of him at the beginning of his career, reading "The Water is Wide" upon publication and then reading "The Boo". I knew a Citadel classmate of his in Pensacola in 1968 when he and my husband were training to fly helicopters in Viet Nam.
As time passed, I systematically waited for each new book with baited breath as I shared the Marine Corps, teaching, and writing with Pat. It took me a lot longer to become an author and I shall never possess the gift of painting lovely visuals with my words as did he, the master of the art.
I had the pleasure of meeting Cassandra and sharing a luncheon table with her at a writers' conference about a year before Pat's death. Hope was still alive that I would one day meet the great man, too.
Alas, I did not, but I did travel to the low-country cemetery along dirt roads to view his simple grave within a rusted wire fence enclosure. His SC soil-covered grave was covered with seashells from the waters he so loved. A loving touch -- perhaps from the children whose lives meant so much to him.
Lord, Pat. I miss you.
Dear Mihai,
I count myself among the millions of fans whose lives have been deeply and profoundly impacted by Pat Conroy's writing.
His canon of work is an embarrassment of riches. As film and TV producers, we would love to discuss adaptation rights. We know his legacy will continue to reach even wider audiences, and would love to be part of that.
Warm regards,
I count myself among the millions of fans whose lives have been deeply and profoundly impacted by Pat Conroy's writing.
His canon of work is an embarrassment of riches. As film and TV producers, we would love to discuss adaptation rights. We know his legacy will continue to reach even wider audiences, and would love to be part of that.
Warm regards,
Have just finished The Great Santini, my fifth Pat Conroy. Like the others, a brilliant book full of insight, wisdom and beautiful writing. Thank you Pat Conroy, you shared a wonderful gift with the world.
I am re reading The Lords of Discipline for about the 20th time. I really miss your beautiful writing Mr. Conroy and am overcome with gratitude to "return to the city of Charleston, South Carolina ". Tonight I wear the ring as well.
I would like to express my gratitude to Pat for writing The Great Santini. I am a former naval aviator, flying off aircraft carriers in a Douglas Skyraider.. Pat's childhood and mine are similar.
I was raised by an insecure, hot tempered and controlling father. Reading Pat's accounting of his childhood validated my own feelings and reactions. Dealing with them is a lifelong process and it is a constant struggle to stay ahead of them and not fall back into the same pattern with my own children.
I'm sure Pat's story has helped others as well as myself. I regret that I didn't read The Great Santini and The Death of Santini until I was 81 years old.
I was raised by an insecure, hot tempered and controlling father. Reading Pat's accounting of his childhood validated my own feelings and reactions. Dealing with them is a lifelong process and it is a constant struggle to stay ahead of them and not fall back into the same pattern with my own children.
I'm sure Pat's story has helped others as well as myself. I regret that I didn't read The Great Santini and The Death of Santini until I was 81 years old.
I just finished The Water is Wide in less than two days. Just couldnโt put this gem of a book down. As a former public school teacher, and really as just a human being, Iโm incredibly moved by Patโs fortitude in the face of virtually insurmountable odds. Itโs my first Pat Conway book and canโt wait to read the rest. So happy I found him, many years late, but not too late! So touched!
My introduction to Pat Conroy was an article in the Atlanta Journal newspaper probably 30 years ago entitled "Confessions of an Ex-Catholic", which brilliantly and with great humor detailed my own feelings. From there, reading his Water is Wide and hearing him speak at Emory University solidified my love of all things Pat Conroy. His humbleness, compassion, kindness, humor, self deprecation, generosity of spirit, openness, and brilliance make him such an unusual and beloved person. Sharing with the world his own personal struggles with his mental health and depression so candidly gives the rest of us hope. The world suffered a deep loss when we lost him. Thank you for continuing this site in his honor.