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Pat very much enjoyed hearing from his readers and was often moved and inspired by your comments.

As you know, Pat Conroy died on March 4, 2016. This site continues to be managed by his longtime friends and literary agents. You may join in a community of his readers by sharing your comments about Patโ€™s books or anything else that comes to mind in this guest book. We, the family,ย  the agents and the friends are deeply moved by the outpouring of love you, his beloved readers, wrote here… Much gratitude to you all; Thank you.

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Tina M Pittman Tina M Pittman from Claxton wrote on February 21, 2021
Love the books.
Agency Reply:
Thank you Tina for writing in the guestbook.
Laura Coffman Laura Coffman from Mount Pleasant, SC wrote on January 3, 2021
Pat Conroy is and always has been my very favorite author. I always wanted to meet him. I wanted to thank him and hug him-thank him for his beautiful stories and for helping me understand the โ€œcomplexitiesโ€ of my own family better,-hug him to absorb some of his pain and share with him some of my own without the need for words.

I remember reading the Lords of Discipline as a teenager on a road trip during a hot summer in the back of a van. I sobbed for several days while reading that book. Beach Music is the best book I have ever read. I go back and read it every few years and I wish the story never ended. I am now reading it for probably the 7th or 8th time. I will always return to this book and am so happy to have it in first edition hardcover. My best to the Conroy family in this new year.
Agency Reply:
I should not wonder about these notes to our beloved Pat Conroy... Often times I write something to him... sometimes it gets in a message on his author Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/PatConroyAuthor - I know how others feel as well. We are all part of the same tribe.

Often when we are in Beaufort and cross the long bridge over the Port Royal Sound we (Marly and I Pat's agents and friends) we both say loudly "Lowenstein, Lowenstein" the words with which The Prince of Tides movie ends since it was filmed on that bridge...
Thank you for writing.
Sandy Paterson Sandy Paterson from Hammond, LA wrote on January 2, 2021
I donโ€™t know why Iโ€™m making an entry to a guestbook of someone already passed on-except to perhaps let family and friends that had the honor to be called such might once again be reminded of what they undoubtedly know.

I love to read. I love books. It is a love passed down to me from my mother, who would have 3-4 books โ€œgoingโ€ at any point of her life. It was through her that I discovered Pat Conroy. She had a system for handing down bags of read books to me... one check on the title page meant that sheโ€™d read it, but that I should only resort to reading if there were no books left in the bag. Two checks meant worth the time and three meant read first! When she gave me the book, โ€œBeach Musicโ€, it not only had the valued three checks, but she wrote-โ€œReally goodโ€ followed with three exclamation points!!!

I saved the book to read on a long plane trip to Colorado with my husband. I, like my mother, am a very fast reader. If going on a 10 day vacation, I will bring 3 books. But this book was different...Pat Conroy created something that made that book last for the entire vacation. I found, that instead of flying through a book, I would read then reread and, as with the first pages of the prologue, read a third time, think about what Iโ€™d just read and then interrupt my husbandโ€™s book to read it to him. When I finally did finish the book, as is the experience with a truly good book, I was sorry Iโ€™d finished it. So was my husband who had essentially listened to a near entire reading of the book through me.

Without belaboring more than I already have, Pat Conroy changed the way I read when I read any of his works. They are prose and fiction, but so much more. He writes in poetry and tells a story in such detail that whether funny or tragic pulls you in and makes you experience the written situation as a silent but present observer.

I wish Iโ€™d been able to tell him that I read him differently than I did other authorโ€™s works. I wish there were more of his books. So, Iโ€™ve bought โ€œBeach Musicโ€ again. Iโ€™ve only read three sections to my husband so far. Iโ€™ve just finished the prologue.
Agency Reply:
Dear Sandy Paterson - you are right that the family, friends, we the agents and decades long friends, want to hear from Pat's readers, esp from serious readers like you. Pat felt things more deeply than most and was a master at putting his feelings into words. I too wish you would have met him. He would have liked you and your family. You seem to understand how the world can break you but also make you laugh at the absurdities of life.

I know that being deeply understood by readers like you sustained him. And the truth is knowing that people like you exists in this world makes these difficult days a lot easier for the rest of us to bear. Thank you for writing.
Ronald Hyatt Ronald Hyatt from Gainesville, FL wrote on December 28, 2020
Hello, I have been a huge Pat Conroy fan going back to "The Great Santini" which spoke to me so big due to my relationship with my father. Then, after having a rough car wreck a number of years ago, a mutual friend Pat and I have, Janis Owens, brought me a signed copy of "My Losing Season". It is a prized possession and sits proudly on my desk. I just finished "A Low Country Heart" absolutely fantastic!!!! Thanks for letting me share!!
Agency Reply:
Ronald, We are so very thrilled that you are sharing your thoughts about Pat here. Janis Owens is a dear friend of ours too. I am Mihai Radulescu who with Marly Rusoff are Pat's literary agents and friends for decades. I maintain this site and Pat's Facebook author page here https://www.facebook.com/PatConroyAuthor where you can see a lot of his fans...
Thank you for writing!
Becca Wolfe Becca Wolfe from Decatur, GA wrote on December 21, 2020
Pat's books are so hard to put down - they haunt your sleep in a good way. I'm about to start South of Broad and am so looking forward to another masterpiece.
Beach Music was bittersweet and I'm almost positive I'll feel the same about this one. Thank you Mr. Conroy for your wonderful books!
Agency Reply:
Becca, we are familiar with the Decatur Book Festival which was initially set up and run for a great number of years by Daren Wang a friend and now an author of our agency https://rusoffagency.com
South of Broad is an extraordinary novel quite complicated and intricate in its multi-plot threads. I wrote a review on it that is now on this site under "blogs". Stay close and we'll post some news on this novel...
Homer Hirt Homer Hirt from Sneads, FL wrote on November 29, 2020
My son, who is 45 and reads only what appears on a "phoneโ€ or a computer, and I were conversing via e-mail this afternoon when I mentioned the Sea Islands. He was not familiar with them, and, of course, the talk led to Pat Conroy and his works. He became immediately interested, even though he is not a "book reader".

I had told him stories from Mr. Conroyโ€™s books...the young mother with two children watching the sunset and the Moonrise, The Great Santini, My Losing Season. Now he is interested in reading more, and I told him that I would like to read them with him, but I cannot.
Two years ago I was diagnosed with glaucoma and I have had to put down my precious books... all of them... but I would, if I had a choice of some to read (not to listen to) Conroyโ€™s would be at the top of the list... especially now that I have awakened a glimmer of interest in my son.
Agency Reply:
Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for you message. Pat's family enjoys reading these messages from Pat's fans. We wish you a successful way to deal with glaucoma - today medicine might be able to help...
Jim Beusse Jim Beusse from Apopka, FL wrote on November 23, 2020
Iโ€™ve read Beach Music three times, the Prince of Tides twice. When I close my eyes, I can see the Piazza Farnese coming to life with the first light of the sun. Itโ€™s breathtaking. At the same time, I can walk the Street of Tides and imagine the aromas of Colleton. Pat Conroyโ€™s dexterity with verse draws the reader into the story like no other author I have ever read. I will borrow a line from the Prince of Tides and take literary license because it perfectly expresses my feelings once Iโ€™ve read a Pat Conroy novel. โ€œHis secret, we would discover, was that once you have traveled (through one of Patโ€™s novels), the voyage never ends, but is played over and over again in the quietest chambers, that the mind can never break off from the journey.โ€
Agency Reply:
Obviously yours, like mine and others' writing was influenced by Pat's elegant style. Thank you for posting this great message. Pat's family enjoys reading the guestbook.
James Myers James Myers from Los Angeles, CA wrote on November 10, 2020
When I read Pat Conroy, it is not uncommon for me to stop and breathe in his poetry, again and again and again. I then say aloud to myself, Lord have mercy, that man could write!
Agency Reply:
James Myers I'd like you to know that Pat Conroy family reads these messages which provide them solace. Thank you for posting.
Lorraine Moneypenny Lorraine Moneypenny from Mt. Vernon, NY wrote on October 13, 2020
I arrived in Bluffton today for the first time and I feel like I have been here before. Of course! In Conroyโ€™s books. โ€œThe Water is Wideโ€ and โ€œBeach Musicโ€ made particular impressions on me. His humanity came shining through his perfect and unique combinations of words. RIP Pat.
Agency Reply:
Lorraine, these places in the lowcountry are gorgeous. You should visit Pat's Beaufort where you'll find lowcountry at its best. However you'll find good pizza in some places but no place will ever match Johnny Pizzeria on Lincoln Avenue in Mount Vernon, NY - I've been in Beaufort for a some months now but that is my favorite place... Mount Vernon has other great food places but Johnny take the prize! Thank you for liking Pat Conroy; do not miss his other masterpieces...
Lori Myers Lori Myers from Batesburg, SC wrote on October 7, 2020
I have just recently become so endeared by Pats books since my youngest son entered the Citadel this year as a knob. My husband ordered The Lords of Discipline for us to enjoy (since we had a Knob) and my breath was taken away at Pat's beautiful storytelling! Iโ€™ve never read an author that brings such passion to his writing with a poetic choice of words, that you can see his life story unfolding between the pages.

Then I was in the right time at the right place. Travelers Rest, SC. An book collector, Jim, who owned My Sisters Store had a first edition, signed copy of My Losing Season. I fell in love and bought it right away. My husband read it and Iโ€™m currently reading it.

My husband then mentioned that he read The Boo in elementary school and he remembered it moving him deeply as being one of his favorite reads.

Itโ€™s tough to find Pats hardcover books in print. And for good reason. Sooooo, I came across The Boo on Amazon, through a small book store. Inside it is signed. (Iโ€™m certain the seller had no idea it was signed since I got it very cheap) It reads โ€œWelcome Lamb. The Boo.โ€ Of course my heart wants it to be Lt Colonel Nugent Courvoisie! **Update-the website monitors confirmed it is his signature**

I will be reading all his books!
Thank you for maintaining this website! God Bless!
Agency Reply:
Lori, it was a pleasure to help you with the "The Boo" signature. In fact I did not have it myself but Cassandra, Pat's wife who found a signed book and took a picture of the signature and send it... Now we both have the confirmation. Indeed it is hard to find Pat's books in hard cover. You might want to try Penguin Random House web site, they sell books there too. It's been a pleasure to interact with you and I wish the best luck to the "Knob", my thanks for the kind words; we love Pat Conroy...
Rachel Rachel wrote on September 19, 2020
Pat,
I miss your beautiful words, love of language, and your immense talent which cultivates a writer in all of us. Rest in perfect peace.
Agency Reply:
Thank you for the kind words Rachel from...
Cathy McWhorter Cathy McWhorter from Bremen, GA wrote on September 13, 2020
I have downloaded all of Pat Conroy's books on my Kindle. I enjoy reading them and marking the passages that are so beautifully written.
Agency Reply:
Cathy you will run out of Kindle's memory - there are thousands of beautiful pages in Pat's work - don't overlook the cookbook - I had an exchange in this guest book with another reader about some hysterically hilarious essays there... Good luck you are in for the English language at its best...
Sorella Sorella wrote on August 28, 2020
It is a blessing and a curse to have read Pat Conroy's books: blessing is clear for us all, but the curse part is that after reading all of the books, you have a hard time finding another author that can mesmerize you like Conroy. Nowadays I find myself reading books for the first 50 pages and then totally bored giving up... if anybody has good ideas to help me out of this misery by revealing some other conroy-style-authors, PLEASE help!
Agency Reply:
I don't know anybody like Pat Conroy. However he liked his friend Rick Brag (for his humor), Terry Kay and a few others... Thank you for posting, I'll ask Cassandra for more names...
Linda Cahoon Blair Linda Cahoon Blair from Hazard, KY wrote on August 27, 2020
Pat Conroy is the only author I ever idolized. I never knew him, never met him, but I loved the words he could string together to make me feel drunk with the heady pleasure of reading his books. He saved my life once, and one of my life's regrets was not telling him so.

At the lowest point in my life, my husband had died soon after a deadly diagnosis. I questioned whether I could go on living. Of course, my children and family topped the list of reasons why I must. However, profoundly selfish, the piercing truth reminded me, "If I were dead, I'd never get to read Pat Conroy again.โ€
Agency Reply:
Linda, I said this about Pat in the past: "Some say grief cannot be shared; it nests inside oneโ€™s heart and has no outside help or resolve. " and I see it happened the same with you... We are puzzled that the word still goes around on the very day our hearts are broken... I am certain Pat would have talked to you had you called him... Thank you for sharing this with us.
Mary Koss Mary Koss from Antigo wrote on August 23, 2020
I watched Conrack last night. Now I want to read every book written by Mr. Pat Conway. I feel inspired. I was saddened to read he was no longer on this earth... it is a great loss.
Agency Reply:
For the best experience I suggest you read the books in the order they were written. You'll see Pat Conroy evolving into the master story telling he became and his books as masterpieces of literature...

The Water is Wide
Th Great Santini
The Lords of Discipline
The Prince of Tides
Beach Music
My Losing Season
The Pat Conroy Cookbook**
South of Broad
My Reading Life**

**Please do not ignore the cookbook it is a lot more than the title. you will laugh in tears reading the essays of each chapter or recipe. My Reading life is a collection of unforgettable essays as well.
John Jenkins John Jenkins from Kannapolis, NC wrote on August 17, 2020
I met Pat at a book signing I talked to him for quite a while. I told Pat that I was one of the people involved in the Richard Nixon Billy Graham Day celebration in Charlotte NC. He used this event in his book but changed the people to be from South Carolina. Everyone that got arrested was from North Carolina.

I was arrested and the Secret Service took the film from my camera. The S.S. came to a Red Hornets meeting we figured out pretty fast he didnโ€™t belong so we made up a bunch of fake stuff we were going to do. The only real thing was Nancy had a banner wrapped around her waist. None of us got into the Coliseum.
I had two real tickets to get in but I was arrested and taken away. When we went to trial George Daily was our Attorney. He did a good job presenting our case. But the government won. We were just hippies doing the right thing. Some times you canโ€™t do the right thing.
Agency Reply:
Fascinating, Thank you for posting.
Anita R Lay Anita R Lay from Amelia Island, FL wrote on July 28, 2020
This is not a comment but a response to Mihai Radulescu's question. My last name is Lay as in "now I lay me down to sleep".

How wonderful that you actually worked on the cookbook from Cassandra's emailed transcriptions of Pat's handwritten work. When you mentioned that you pulled up the Word file and again laughed till you cried at the pig roast story, I remembered Pat's account of taking Nathalie Dupree's class and her describing, in between laconically issuing instructions to them, how she amassed the ingredients to cook a fabulous meal for a lover which consisted of escargot and calf testicles, her screams as she came back from going for wine to find the snails all over her kitchen and her screams drawing the two gay men who were her neighbors to her rescue until they saw the gruesome organs in her sink whereupon they ran screaming, thinking she might be the serial killer of gay men that was on the loose.

I tried to read this to my husband and could not get enough breath while laughing to read it. Dupree telling such an off-the-wall tale while critiquing their culinary skills was funny enough, but Pat's colorful account of her doing it was hysteria-inducing.
Agency Reply:
Anita, you keep making me laugh finding these hysterically hilarious passages from Pat's cooking book... I know you sent this as a comment to mine but the site doesn't have "blogging" capability to sustain an exchange so I am letting the text through as a new Guest Book entry - actually a complement to your previous message. I see you chocking with laughter trying to get the words out to your husband - well known feeling. Thank you.
Anita R. Lay Anita R. Lay from Amelia Island, FL wrote on July 27, 2020
So many of Pat's books have spoken to me since I first read Lords Of Discipline and The Water Is Wide at the suggestion of my daughter. But I recently had an even more enjoyable experience than Pat's fiction when I stumbled upon The Pat Conroy Cookbook. Not only were the recipes great, but the personal stories and anecdotes which accompanied them were wonderful. I alternately laughed and cried.

I wanted to live in Rome, I wanted to careen down a mountain road in Puglia, I wanted to sit at a patio table in Paris and see John Hemingway giving an interview at the next table. I wanted to learn to gig a flounder, to roast a whole hog in a pit in Atlanta (after seeing it stored in the bathtub of a Jewish friend because there wasn't room in the refrigerator ) and fib about being up all night to "mop and sop" it, and to plan an extraordinary wedding out of Southern Living in beautiful Beaufort, where I had once stayed in one of those Bay street mansions.

Such stories of a man living his life with so much gusto!! Took my breath away. Nemaste, Pat Conroy. You will be sorely missed.
Agency Reply:
Anita, indeed some of the essays are pearls of Pat's best writing - I laughed in tears again at the scene with the pig in Cliff Graubart's bathtub. I know Cliff well, he is one of the most hilarious people I've known... so is Bernie and the others... I popped up the word file for that chapter and read it again now... (I put this book together myself from Pat's manuscript... he'd do it long hand on his yellow legal pads, then Cassandra would transcribe and email it to me, next some formatting then passed to the editor at Random House..) Thank you for bringing this up, it was fun.
BabettE WITHERSPOON BabettE WITHERSPOON from Conroe, TX wrote on July 26, 2020
I have loved Mr. Conroy's books. He wrote about subject matters I love... Watching Conrack on TV reminded me of how much I love his work.

He will always be remembered by readers everywhere...
Agency Reply:
Thank you Babette from the beautiful Conroe one of the best places in Texas they say... Pat's family reads these messages and are truly pleased his readers remember him!
Tony Quintero Tony Quintero from Olathe, KS wrote on July 10, 2020
I first read Mr. Conroy's work in LIFE magazine as a kid. The article was titled CONRACK. This piece affected me tremendously. Thank you.
Agency Reply:
Tony, thank you for reminding such a long ago article... I hope you read more Pat Conroy since that LIFE Magazin article which I remember...
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